Tuesday, February 28, 2012
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Wednesday, February 22, 2012
This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we hadn’t enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would say “Eat this rice, son! I’m not hungry.”
This was Mother’s First Lie.
As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside me and eat what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten, My heart was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, “Eat this fish, son! I don’t really like fish.”
This was Mother’s Second Lie.
Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory to bring home some used matchboxes, which she filled with fresh matchsticks. This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I said, “Mother, go to sleep; it’s late: you can continue working tomorrow morning.” Mother smiled and said “Go to sleep, son! I’m not tired.”
This was Mother’s Third Lie.
When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After dawn, Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang, I ran to meet her. Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my Mother’s love. Seeing Mother covered with perspiration, I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too. Mother said “Drink, son! I’m not thirsty!”.
This was Mother’s Fourth Lie.
After Father’s death, Mother had to play the role of a single parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family’s life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family’s condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and small. Our other neighbors saw that we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother refused to remarry saying “I don’t need love.”
This was Mother’s Fifth Lie.
After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my old Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning just to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was steadfast and even sent the money back to me. She said, “I have enough money.”
That was Mother’s Sixth Lie.
I continued my part-time studies for my Master’s Degree. Funded by the American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies. With a big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in
That was Mother’s Seventh Lie.
In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble but Mother said, “Don’t cry, son! I’m not in pain.”
That was Mother’s Eighth Lie.
Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died. YES, MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!
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M – O – T – H – E – R
“M” is for the Million things she gave me,
“O” means Only that she’s growing old,
“T” is for the Tears she shed to save me,
“H” is for her Heart of gold,
“E” is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them,
“R” means Right, and right she’ll always be.
Put them all together, they spell “MOTHER” a word that means the world to me.
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For those of you who are lucky to be still blessed with your Mom’s presence on Earth, this story is beautiful.
For those who aren’t so blessed, this is even more beautiful.
Monday, February 20, 2012
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, "I love you, but I know this other woman loves you too, and she would love to spend some time with you."
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
"What's wrong, are you well?" she asked. My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
"I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you," I responded. "Just the two of us."
She thought about it for a moment, and then said...
"I would like that very much."
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up, I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.
"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed," she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting."
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.
"It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said.
"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded.
During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you." I agreed.
"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home.
"Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son."
At that moment I understood the importance of saying, in time, "I LOVE YOU."
And to give our loved ones the time they deserve. Because nothing is more important in life than family... and they shouldn't be put off until "some other time.”
Please share this with every daughter and son you know.
Sunday, February 19, 2012
Lihatlah pada pintu peti ais mereka dipenuhi berbagai magnet yang cantik dan berwarna warni. Mungkin senang nak melekatkan bil atau nota kecil yang penting. Jumlah magnet yang dilekatkan kadang-kadang sampai berpuluh banyaknya.
Dulu ada satu kajian mengatakan bahawa makanan yang kita makan sekarang banyak mengandungi bahan toksik dan bahan kimia berbanding zaman dahulu. Tapi rupa-rupanya kita sendiri yang menyebabkan makanan yang disimpan di dalam peti ais itu tercemar oleh "pancaran sinaran electromagnet". Kadang-kadang berminggu-minggu kita menyimpan makanan seperti ikan, daging ayam sebelum dimasak. Pada tahun 1990an, telefon bimbit Motorola, jika diletak pada sudu akan melekat kerana magnetnya sangat kuat. Banyak kes barah otak dilapurkan sehingga syarikat tersebut terpaksa memberhentikan pengeluarannya.
Kanser sel selalunya terjadi apabila satu sel sahaja yang "active" dan ia mula merebak diam tanpa pesakit mengetahui perkembangannya. Kanser adalah seperti "time bomb" dan hanya diketahui pada "stage 4" apabila pesakit mula merasakan perubahan pada dirinya seperti demam yang berpanjangan, loya dan tidak bermaya serta kurang selera. Selalunya pada "stage 4 " sudah terlewat untuk menerima rawatan, hanya rawatan kemotrapi yang menyakitkan sahaja diberi rawatan pada pesakit kanser.
Kadang-kadang rawatan kemotrapi belum tentu dapat menyembuhkan pesakit kanser tapi sangat menyeksakan sehingga habis semua rambut gugur. Yang paling menyakitkan iaitu apabila mengambil air tulang "bone marrow". Pesakit kanser yang sering membuat rawatan kemotrapi akan sampai satu tahap, akan berputus asa dan tidak sanggup menjalani sebarang rawatan lagi dan pasrah akan hidupnya. Jangan biar orang kesayangan anda menerima nasib yang sedemikian.
Ini bukanlah untuk menakutkan pembaca tetapi kita boleh membuat pemeriksaan awal mengesan sel kanser di klinik swasta atau Fomema. Pemeriksaan keseluruhan kesihatan berpandu daripada darah kita, ia dapat mengesan sel kanser jika baru nak "active". Pada peringkat awal ini, rawatan dapat membunuhnya terus sel yang "active". Jangan ingat dalam minda kita, ini sudah ditakdirkan oleh Allah SWT. Sebenarnya kita disuruh berusaha menjaga kesihatan yang merupakan satu ibadah untuk kita. Jika umat Islam sehat maka agama Islam pun kuat. Jika umat Islam lemah, musuh-musuh Islam akan menang.
Pelbagai andaian mungkin benar juga mengapa sesetengah ahli keluarga mereka menghidap kanser ternyata datangnya dari makanan yang kita makan. Sejumlah penyelidik dan saintis di
Kajian oleh Penyelidik
Kumpulan pertama yang diberi dengan makanan disimpan di peti ais tanpa magnet. Kumpulan kedua dengan makanan yang disimpan di dalam peti ais tapi dengan beberapa hiasan magnet dilekatkan pada pintu peti ais. Tujuan kajian ini adalah untuk melihat bagaimana "pancaran sinaran elektromagnet" yang keluar dari magnet hias di pintu mempengaruhi sumber makanan. Dari hasil kajian klinikal menyatakan bahawa kumpulan tikus yang diberi makanan yang "terpancar sinaran electromagnet" mempunyai kebarangkalian sebanyak 87% makanan lebih tinggi untuk mendapatkan kanser berbanding dengan kumpulan tikus lain.
Kerajaan tidak boleh menjelaskan atau persatuan kesihatan/institusi untuk memberikan kenyataan berkaitan dengan hal ini kerana masih dalam peringkat kajian lagi. Namun hanya dalam kes ini adalah dinasihatkan untuk menghilangkan atau menanggalkan magnet dekoratif dari peti ais anda dan meletakkannya jauh dari makanan.
Sila sampaikan maklumat penting ini kepada kenalan dan saudara anda. Mencegah lebih baik dari merawat. Semuga kita terhindar dari penyakit kanser yang banyak membawa keburukan dan kedukaan sesebuah keluarga bahagia.
Aqidah anda tentang kuasa magnet.
Pada hukum tauhid. Semua kebaikan dan keburukan datang dari Allah SWT. Hanya kelemahan dari diri kita. Magnet adalah zat yang bersifat nafsiah shj. Dan kuasa pancaran hanya sifat ma'niyah. Sifat ini berdiri dengan zat iaitu hal kelakuan pancarannya, dikeranakan dengan satu kerana. Jika kehendakNya, bukan kuasa magnet boleh menyebabkan kanser. Semuanya kerana kehendak Allah SWT. Yang menjadi asbab penyakit tersebut jika terdedah pada zat oleh sifat kelakuannya.
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